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Newcomers / Re: Old timer back but plenty to work with
« on: December 04, 2015, 06:30:06 am »
HI
Not being able to have children, when she knows it is something you want is HUGE.....she is displacing her upset about this and picking on you. I am not sure how she feels about counseling or the like, but that can help.
Other than that I think she needs to be romanced a bit, or whatever she liked about you. If possible she needs to feel that she is adequate whether or not you have children.
It is her insecurities that are causing this. She needs a hug and if she is too rigid in the moment to reach, you need to find ways to do it. Not like obviously but almost silently.
Does that make sense?
Not being able to have children, when she knows it is something you want is HUGE.....she is displacing her upset about this and picking on you. I am not sure how she feels about counseling or the like, but that can help.
Other than that I think she needs to be romanced a bit, or whatever she liked about you. If possible she needs to feel that she is adequate whether or not you have children.
It is her insecurities that are causing this. She needs a hug and if she is too rigid in the moment to reach, you need to find ways to do it. Not like obviously but almost silently.
Does that make sense?