Relationship Resource

It's kind of crazy how much kids these days learn in school... If you think about it, new generations have to learn SO much more than ANY previous generation because science keeps evolving and keeps piling up new things to learn.

One of those is apaprently is thermal analysis. My son's teacher was adamant about covering this topic

The problem is, Billy can't keep up. And it breaks my heart that I can't help him. I really wish I could, but I really feel stupid because I don't know anything about the subject. I have found a helpful website but not much else. Can someone link me to a website that explains thermal analysis for dummies?

Thank you for the response... Well to be honest with you as far as to what made her come back was that I had made some personal changes in that I wasn't letting the small things bother me and knew that If I made those personal changes that she would change as well, even though Royce warned me that she still needed to get professional help. She never did.

Royce was probably right, and in some ways that is what logo is referring to.  With the work you've done on yourself, her lack of change will remain the weakness in your R if you two reconcile. 

As far as what I doing to keep myself busy is keeping positive and staying the course with my job and my family but boy I do miss my wife and hope she feels the same... Should I reach out to her? yet? I mean I just found a new place to live and need my belongings that are at her place but again not desperate for them.. Your thoughts

There is no rush, and the more you wait, the greater the possibility that she has missed you as well.  Waiting is tough... but it'll give you time to read through the book from end to end a couple of times...     Technically you'll only need your stuff once you are fully set up in your new place... ideally she reaches out to you before.    One thing I have noticed from those who have reconciled, is that it usually happens when they have truly let go and often have begun to move on.  Time is your friend here...
ARb

Thank you for the response... Well to be honest with you as far as to what made her come back was that I had made some personal changes in that I wasn't letting the small things bother me and knew that If I made those personal changes that she would change as well, even though Royce warned me that she still needed to get professional help. She never did.

The first time we broke up was because she had a a very light fuse, one moment she would be the most loving person in the world and then in an instant she would flip. Understand that I helped her raise her two adolescent children who were not easy to deal with. But I committed to help her during those troubled times. I times I felt like she did not appreciate what I brought to the table. I always tried to keep everyone happy and entertained but I still felt like they were taking me for granted. I managed through some counseling with Royce in making that negative to a positive for me.

When I got together with her again I think that she saw that I was more financially secure and felt more security as a result. The only thing is my job is seasonal and there is a period where my income is less so I spend less. I don't want to think that is the reason but it added fuel to the fire. She did mentioned to me once that I deceived her in my financial situation but I did remind her that my work was always seasonal and showed her my bank statements to prove how when I make money it is good money... She seemed understanding and even said that we will make this work. We were loving....

You see my wife has a good job and makes a good income ( much more than me ) but with the high rent plus providing for her two college kids it can get sticky for her at times so I compliment by paying for some of the bills, food and entertainment. Again not sure if this is a real reason but I always managed to keep us happy and content as we never had any arguments just small disagreements but never upset with each other because of that. It was the best relationship we've ever had and the reason why I think she probably not over me yet. She has to be thinking of me and our great times together.

As far as what I doing to keep myself busy is keeping positive and staying the course with my job and my family but boy I do miss my wife and hope she feels the same... Should I reach out to her? yet? I mean I just found a new place to live and need my belongings that are at her place but again not desperate for them.. Your thoughts

Thanks you

Yes I did respond but very light and casual. it was responding to the alert of the motorcycle recall - I found that very odd, it sounded like she was trying to reach out to me with something so mundane. Still not sure if I should initiate a text or email and what to say....

Thank you for responding. I have not heard from her since the last text but I am staying focused. Not to sure if I should reach out to her yet.
I would like to keep it casual but just at a lost for words right now.  Do you think I should wait a while longer to connect?
I still have some of my belongings at her place so that could be my in although I really don't need them right now, again I can wait if I have to.

Just a little advice and your thoughts...

Thank you

PS: if you can send me the ebook I would be very grateful